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We offer a full range
of options for both burial and cremation.
In fact, many families are surprised at
the variety of options available, especially
when selecting cremation.
Burial/Entombment
The option of burial is available whether your family currently owns a plot or wishes to purchase a new grave(s). Most cemeteries in this area have graves available for purchase. In fact, a recent study has determined that in North America, based on current cemeteries on operation, there is enough burial land to last the next 25 years.
A limited number of cemeteries also offer entombment. As an alternative to burial in ground, the casket is place in a wall above ground. These buildings, often referred to as mausoleums, will vary greatly in size and style depending on their location. It should be noted that this method of disposition is more expensive than burial. In this immediate area, Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium in Thornton is the only location offering entombment.
Located in Barrie, there
are 2 cemeteries; Barrie Union Cemetery
which is a non-denominational cemetery and
St. Mary's Catholic Cemetery.
Within the perimeter of
Barrie, there are many smaller cemeteries.
We maintain a list of most of these cemeteries
and the contact person(s) who can assist
families interested in purchasing a plot.
It should be noted that these cemeteries
may have policies in place that limit burials
to families with immediate connections to
the community. As these smaller cemeteries
approach capacity, guidelines have been
implemented to ensure that locals have access
to plots. Although we do not sell plots,
feel free to contact
our office and we will assist you in finding
the name and phone number of the cemetery
contact person(s).
Burial outside of the
local area is also a service available to
families. We can arrange for burials within
Ontario, Canada and worldwide. Specific
requests can be addressed by contacting
our office.
Cremation
Points of Interest
Currently in Ontario, provincial
legislation stipulates that a funeral home
can not have a crematorium on-site. The
crematorium must be a separate entity from
the funeral home. In addition, the owner
of a funeral establishment is not permitted
to have controlling ownership in a cemetery
or crematorium. Most crematoriums are located
on cemetery property.
In Ontario some cemeteries
and/or crematoriums have establishments
on-site that allow for visitation. It should
be understood that these facilities are
not funeral homes but rather "visitation
centres". Visitation centres are very
limited to the types of services they may
provide. For example, they are not licenced
to provide embalming or to arrange funerals
with families. Families are not obligated
to deal with one particular funeral home
should they wish to use a Visitation Centre;
that choice is the families. There are no
Visitation Centres located within the Barrie
area.
Understanding
Cremation
Cremation
is a dignified alternative to burial that
is often accompanied by misunderstanding.
This section is intended to ensure that
the concept of cremation is truly understood.
Here are some important points about cremation:
1) An open
casket visitation CAN take place
prior to cremation just as with
burial.
2) Embalming IS an option
even with cremation.
3) If a casket is purchased
for cremation, the entire casket
is cremated with the body. If a
family wishes to have cremation
follow the visitation and/or service
but do not feel comfortable cremating
the casket, we have 2 rental options
available. Our rental casket system
consists of a specially designed
casket shell that houses a cremation
container. The exterior looks like
a regular casket but has an insert
that is removed and cremated with
the body. A new insert is placed
in the shell after each use. The
pillow and cloth interior are attached
to this insert and are replaced
after each use. The caskets that
are available to be rented are clearly
identified to families and a Rental Casket Agreement is signed by the family to ensure they fully understand the concept of a "rental casket. The rental
casket option is not available for
burial.
4) Cremation is not always
less costly than burial. A small
minority of families who select
cremation will choose not to have
visitation or a service. In this
situation cremation would be less
than burial. Cremation however,
can be more costly than burial depending
on how the family wishes to deal
with the cremated remains.
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Example:
Family "A" has selected a casket and is requesting a full traditional funeral with open casket visitation from 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. The funeral will follow the next day in the funeral home chapel. The family already owns an empty grave at the local cemetery but can not decide between burial and cremation.
Option A: Full casket burial without cremation:
Currently the fee for the local cemetery to open and close the grave for a full casket burial is $520.00. The family has opted not to use a concrete burial container to protect the casket. The total charge by the cemetery required to complete the burial is $520.00.
Option B: Cremation with the burial of ashes in the same plot:
Cremations arranged through our funeral homes take place at Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium. Their fee for cremation is $411.95. In addition to this fee, the Province of Ontario requires all cremations be approved by a Coroner prior to taking place. The fee for this approval is $75.00. In addition, the charge for the local cemetery to open and close the grave for the purpose of burying cremated remains is $165.00. In this situation, total cemetery fees amount to $651.95.
The other item that can factor the cost of cremation is the urn selection. Although not required by law, many families choose to place the ashes in a container other than the plastic box received from the crematorium. Urn prices can start below $100 and can go up to several thousand dollars. A full selection of burial vaults for cremated remains is also offered. |
5) Environmental
concerns can often influence a family
to select cremation rather than
burial. There are rising concerns
that the cremation process may be
releasing high levels of pollutants
into the environment. Although we
have not seen any conclusive reports,
the concern stems from the types of containers
that are cremated. Pressboard, particle
board or MDF constructed containers/caskets
contain resins that may be harmful
to the environment when burned.
It is not uncommon for families
selecting cremation to choose a
more entry level casket. It is also
common that these caskets are less
money because they are manufactured
from a combination of solid wood and solid wood alternatives (such as pressboard). Fortunately we
are able to offer products that
are less harmful to the environment
when cremated. There have been discussions
of monitoring the emissions from
crematoriums. Should these studies
produce evidence that cremation emissions
are exceeding safe levels, future
regulations may require crematoriums
to add devices to reduce pollutants
released to the environment. These
devices can be very expensive and
potentially could affect the price
of cremation in the future. It is
a subject that we do not yet have
any concrete answers for but will
be of great interest over the years
to come.
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Options
for Cremation
To follow up on our
opening statement, here are some of the
many service options available with cremation:
1) One or two days of open or closed casket visitation and the service to follow on the next day.
2) Open or closed casket visitation on the same day as the service.
3) Funeral
service absent of the casket or
body. Family may select to have
the urn present for the service
if they wish.
4) A gathering absent of the casket or body with no formal service. An informal gathering allows people to visit during a set period of time. Urn can be present for gathering if family wishes.
5) A service held only at the graveside on the day of the burial of ashes.
6) A
service in the funeral home or church
with the urn present, followed by
a procession of vehicles to the
final resting place of the cremated
remains.
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Families often inquire
as to what options are available related
to the disposition of cremated remains.
Here are some of the common options available:
1)
One of the most frequently asked
questions that we are asked is "Can
ashes be scattered?". We are
not in a position to give legal
advice on this topic. We are not aware of any law in Ontario that
makes scattering of ashes illegal.
What we do suggest is that families
carefully consider ALL their options
before commencing with scattering.
Remember, once the ashes are scattered
it is FINAL. Your decision can not
be reversed. Other important factors
to consider before scattering is
the location and method of which
this will take place.
Water
Water is a popular destination,
however this should be carefully
thought out. Scattering from the
shore or a boat can become a problem
if the wake is too strong. Parts
of the cremated remains will float
in the direction of the current.
Avoid containers that will float
or remain in tact for years to come.
Consider that a swimmer or diver
could locate ashes protected by
a container. Urns are available
from the funeral home made of materials
that are designed to float for a
short duration before settling to
the bottom and naturally breaking
down to the elements.
Land
Places like the family cottage can be a tranquil resting place for ashes. It is important to keep in mind that the location that you scatter the ashes becomes a spot that will be remembered for years to come; sort of like a private cemetery. Do you want a "cemetery" in an area that you frequently relate to recreational fun or that special place of peacefulness and solitude? Before scattering on your property consider the fact that this land may not always belong to your family. As unlikely as it may seem at the time, one day your favorite family destination could be a commercial or residential development.
Public land, such as parks, are not suggested as an ideal location but are still selected by some families. This requires extra consideration and discretion; the last thing you would want to do is offend someone who might just happen to walk by during your "ceremony". If you must scatter on public property, select a time of day when less traveled and a location out of public view that will allow for the ashes to go unnoticed until they are able to disperse back to the elements.
2) Cemeteries are adapting to the increase in cremation. Many cemeteries are now offering columbarium niches (or niche walls) which are the structures that have either glass or stone fronts. The family purchase the rights to use one compartment which is normally capable of holding two containers or urns.
Ashes can also be buried in full size burial plots. Depending on the cemetery, they may allow as many as 4 to six containers of cremated remains in one single grave. People that own family plots that do not have room for full casket burials may still be allowed by the cemetery to bury ashes on top. Each cemetery will vary and they should be contacted for their rules and regulations. Permission will also be required by the legal owner of the plot before proceeding.
Select cemeteries have available cremation plots. The size of the plot is much smaller than a full size grave but normally have room for the burial of 2 urns.
On occasion, families
have inquired about placing the
cremated remains of one person into
a casket with someone else.
Example: The husband died and was cremated according to his wishes. The ashes were kept at home by the family until the death of his wife. Her wishes were to be buried in a casket and not cremated. The family has requested that the ashes be placed in the casket so that they could be buried together.
This request can
be accommodated providing the cemetery
gives approval. We will always notify
the cemetery of such a request.
We respect the cemetery's rules
and regulations and the importance
that these arrangements be properly
documented by the cemetery for historical
reasons.
For families that want a dignified, but inexpensive method of dealing with the remains, some cemeteries offer "common ground burial". For a minimal fee, the cemetery accepts the ashes and buries or stores them in a section that is unmarked. Although the family would not know where they are located and are unable to place a monument, they can find comfort in knowing that the remains have been taken care of in a dignified manner. If the family changes their mind in the future, it may be possible to have the ashes retrieved for an additional fee. If you are considering common ground burial and feel that you may want the ashes back at a later date, check with the cemetery as to their retrieval policy.
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In closing, remember
one important thing; when you scatter ashes,
you are in essence closing a chapter on
someone's life forever. Unlike burial at
a cemetery, there will be no record to indicate
the final resting place of the ashes, no
monument that stands throughout time to
mark the site of burial and no archived
record of what has transpired. Over the
years we have seen a strong interest in
genealogical research. Many people have
successfully traced family roots with the
assistance of cemetery records. When ashes
are scattered, this record generally does
not exist.
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